The first position I had on a church staff was as Assistant Director of Recreation and Activities at Westwood Baptist Church in Birmingham, AL. I served alongside Reggie Nichols, the Director, in leading the various recreation ministries of the church. It was a wonderful experience that God used in many ways to prepare me for His plan for my life in ministry.
After a little over a year, Reggie announced that he would be stepping down as director to pursue another ministry position. I was subsequently given the position of Director of Recreation and Activities. I had never held a leadership position like that before. I was nervous to say the least. Before he left, I asked Reggie if he had any advice for me. He told me to pray for a servant’s heart. At the time that seemed simple. Through the years I have learned how valuable that advice is.
In order to lead people, I have to be able to put the needs of others above myself. In order to encourage people to serve, I have to be a servant leader. The problem is, this is in many ways contrary to human nature and culture.
In 1 Peter 5:2-3, Peter gives instructions to the Elders in the church on how to lead those that have been entrusted to them. “2 Care for the flock that God has entrusted to you. Watch over it willingly, not grudgingly—not for what you will get out of it, but because you are eager to serve God. 3 Don’t lord it over the people assigned to your care, but lead them by your own good example.” This is servant leadership.
Then in verses 1 Peter 5:5b-6 he states, “5 And all of you, dress yourselves in humility as you relate to one another, for ‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.’ 6 So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time he will lift you up in honor.”
My flesh says, “Look out for number one.” God says, “Clothe yourself in humility as you relate to others.” Culture says, “If you want to get ahead, to have success in life, promote yourself.” God says, “Humble yourself under the mighty power of God, and at the right time I will lift you up”.
God’s plan is in many ways contrary to human nature and culture. I have experienced this battle within my own heart and mind. My desire is to be a servant leader. To lead my family and His church selflessly and faithfully. I certainly have not perfected this, but thankfully God is still working on me. My prayer is that, as I submit to Christ each day, He will continue to transform me and make me the leader He wants me to be in my family and as a pastor.
Sincerely,
Pastor Allen